37 Definitive Signs of Blocked Feminine Energy and How To Fix It

By DeAndrea
signs of blocked feminine energy

Have you been trying to embody more feminine energy but feel stuck? Are you trying to live a softer, more luxurious life but cannot seem to make it happen? Do you just not feel like your true self? When you are showing signs of blocked feminine energy, you will not feel in alignment with who you truly are.

Blocked feminine energy is when your feminine and masculine energies are not in balance. We all have both masculine and feminine traits regardless of our gender. It’s important to balance these energies in order to be in alignment. An excessively masculine lifestyle destroys your feminine energy.

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When your feminine energy is blocked you feel unfulfilled, disconnected, tired, and overwhelmed with life. You may feel resentful, unsupported, unseen, and unloved. You feel alive, inspired, and attractive when you lead with feminine energy. You have healthy boundaries and a strong sense of worth. Your choices and your actions are aligned with who you are, and what you are to be and do in life. In your love life, you are not controlling, chasing, or leading your partner – You feel safe and relaxed to receive the love you deserve. Who wouldn’t want that?!

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Signs of Wounded Feminine Energy

  1. You see femininity as a weakness
  2. You do not ask for help
  3. You do everything yourself
  4. You have experienced trauma or abuse
  5. You are not comfortable receiving
  6. You neglect self-care
  7. You ignore your appearance
  8. You suppress your emotions
  9. You are not happy
  10. You attract feminine men
  11. You feel more powerful in masculine behavior
  12. You do not like to see feminine women
  13. You are not in tune with your sensuality
  14. You lack grace
  15. You do not enjoy being praised
  16. You feel drained and exhausted
  17. You feel like you can’t afford to rest
  18. You struggle with romantic relationships
  19. You do not have many female friends
  20. You are disconnected from your body
  21. You rely on logic more than intuition
  22. You are controlling
  23. You push yourself too hard
  24. You find it difficult to show love
  25. You always feel the need to be productive
  26. You think cultivating beauty is shallow and unimportant
  27. You have a need to prove yourself
  28. You experienced trauma or abuse
  29. You think you need to struggle
  30. You feel the need to impress men
  31. You think suffering makes you worthy
  32. You lack joy
  33. You feel guilty doing things simply for pleasure
  34. You compare yourself to the men around you
  35. You push yourself too hard
  36. You do not think you are creative
  37. You feel resistance towards your mother, womanhood, or motherhood
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How To Heal Wounded Feminine Energy

Practice Loving Yourself

When you love yourself you can fully embrace the magic of who you are. What better way to radiate feminine energy than by accepting and loving yourself as a woman and everything that entails? Accept yourself as who you are right now for everything that you are, not as you think you ought to be. It means accepting your emotions for what they are and putting your physical, emotional, and mental well-being first. Start by being gentle, patient, and compassionate to yourself the way you would with someone you care about.

Embrace Receiving

As women, we naturally give so much more than we take. Giving is integral to nurturing but it is also okay to receive. Ask for help when you need it. Gracefully accept help when it is offered. Let men open the door for you, carry your groceries or be the one who pays. Accept compliments without downplaying them. Pamper yourself by taking a spa day or getting a massage. Enjoy yourself without judgment or shame and be comfortable receiving pleasure. You have an unlimited capacity to receive and it is beyond okay to receive abundantly.

Connect To Your Playful Self

To become more playful you need to do what you want simply because you want to. Everything doesn’t need to be productive or have an end goal to it. Feminine energy is fluid. If you just let it flow freely, there is no telling where it will go. When is the last time you danced around the house without a care in the world? Or sang like no one was listening? You need to connect to your inner child. She is playful and full of light. Take time to forget your worries, even if only for 10 minutes.

Let Your Creativity Run Wild

When you tap into your creativity you are connecting with your feminine energy. Human life cannot be created without women. There is no single way to be creative. Taking up writing, dancing, painting, photography, or any other feminine hobby is a great way to get your creative juices flowing.

Reconnect With Nature and Your Senses

The more you learn to just be without needing to be productive the more you are signaling to yourself that it is okay to take time just for you. Feeling is the essence of femininity. Because you feel you need to surrender. Surrender to life and let go of the need to control everything. Stop fighting with yourself, the universe, and the natural flow of things. Learn to let go of your limiting beliefs as those lead you to become detached and numb. You have to let the feelings flow to be more feminine. Become one with nature and enjoy how good the sun feels on your skin, how pretty flowers look, and the majesty of each season.

Trust Your Intuition

You know that feeling when you can feel that something is off? It’s like an internal pull telling you to pay attention. You don’t know how you know, you just do. That’s feminine energy. It is speaking to you for a reason. The next time you feel rushed to have an answer take a moment to arrive at your own understanding. Look inward to get the answers you want before acting. Do not let external forces rush you into making any decision you are not comfortable with.

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