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9 Ways To Radiate Feminine Energy And Feel More Confident

By DeAndrea Douglas
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When most people think about how to radiate feminine energy, the first thing that comes to mind is probably being shy and soft-spoken. While those qualities are definitely a part of it, feminine energy is much more than that. Feminine energy is about being in touch with your intuition and your emotions and using them to guide your decisions. It’s also about being compassionate and connected to others and creating space for connection in the world. If you want to start radiating more feminine energy and reclaim your feminine power, these tips will have you leveled up in no time.

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The Power Of Femininity

In our society, power is often seen as a masculine quality. We tend to associate power with the behaviors and values that come from the left side of the brain, which is the side believed to have evolved to deal with our hunter/gatherer instincts. This kind of power prefers emotional objectivity, logic, convergent thinking, assertiveness, and a willingness to kill– all qualities that are typically seen as belonging to men.

It’s no secret that our society is deeply rooted in masculinity. From the way we expect men and women to behave, to the way we view success and power, it’s clear that our culture values masculine traits over feminine ones. This standard of femininity is not only incredibly limiting, but it’s also artificially constructed by men. In other words, it’s not real. It’s time for us to break free from these outdated and harmful ideas about what it means to be a woman. We are strong, capable, and whole just the way we are.

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There is great strength within every woman. This strength comes from our intelligence and intuition. We are able to feel emotions deeply and access powerful healing energy. We are also incredibly sexual beings with the ability to manifest our desires.

For too long, women have been suppressing their strengths, or at best, relegating them to the domestic sphere. Authentic femininity is rarely seen as a form of power in and of itself. The power playbooks have been written by and for men…until now.

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How To Radiate Feminine Energy

If you want to know how to radiate feminine energy, you first need to feel feminine. This may seem like a simple statement, but it’s actually quite complex. The most important thing to remember is that there is no one way to be feminine. Each person has their own definition of femininity that is shaped by many different factors, including their upbringing, cultural background, and personal experiences. So if you feel like you don’t fit the stereotypical definition of femininity, that’s okay! You don’t need to force yourself into a mold that doesn’t fit you. Instead, you can focus on developing your own definition of this term based on your own unique experiences. You can also try to surround yourself with other people who support this definition, such as friends and family members who respect and value the unique qualities that make you who you are. Once you start feeling more comfortable in your own skin, the rest will follow.

In order to radiate something, you must contain it first.

Be Receptive

Being femininely receptive means being aware of your surroundings and the people in them. It means being open to new experiences and being able to let go of your preconceived notions and judgments. It means being in tune with your intuition and going with the flow.

Women have a unique ability to be receptive because we are naturally in tune with our emotions and the emotions of others. We are often better at reading facial expressions and body language, and we can easily build rapport with others. We are also typically more intuitive than men, which allows us to pick up on subtleties in conversations and interactions.

Be Open and Positive

Being open and positive is an important aspect of emotional intelligence and how to radiate feminine energy. Being open means being receptive to new ideas while being positive means being optimistic and seeing the glass as half full. Embodying both of these feminine traits can help you to interact with others in a more meaningful way. To be more open, keep an open mind when interacting with others, and be willing to listen to their ideas. Also, be sure to be open to feedback and criticism if it’s constructive. To be more positive, look for the silver lining in every situation and do your best to remain optimistic. You can also try to find something to laugh about every day. Being open and positive is a great way to boost your emotional intelligence. So next time you’re feeling frustrated or closed off, take a deep breath and try to look on the bright side!

Have Boundaries

A vital part of radiating feminine energy is having boundaries. Boundaries are the limits you set for yourself. These limits can be physical (like maintaining personal space) or emotional (like not allowing people to call you outside of your name). Boundaries let people know where they stand with you, what you will and will not accept, and help you stay true to who you are. If you don’t have boundaries, you can easily be taken advantage of or overwhelmed. You may feel like you have to please everyone or that you have to keep up with someone else’s pace. You may find yourself feeling resentful or frustrated. If, on the other hand, you set and maintain boundaries, it’s easier to take care of yourself and stay true to your values and beliefs. You’ll feel like you have more control over your life. You’ll also be more likely to attract people who respect your boundaries and want to get to know the real you.

Be Flexible

Being flexible is an important skill to have. Life always has surprises and unexpected twists and turns. It’s important to be able to adapt to these new circumstances and find a way to make things work. Flexibility also helps you be more adaptable and able to handle change. If you are rigid and unyielding in the wrong places that can be incredibly off-putting and you may end up repelling the things you want to attract. When things don’t go according to plan, take a breath and look for ways to keep moving in the direction you want to go in.

Don’t Gossip

Feminine beings are warm and compassionate. When you speak ill of others in an attempt to disparage them, you start to compromise your femininity. Use the power of your words to speak goodness and life into others and yourself. If someone speaks ill of you, you can and should stand up for yourself. Femininity is yielding, but not weak.

Feel Your Feelings and Re-sensitize Yourself To The Feelings Of Others

Femininity is gentle and feminine women are very sensitive to themselves and others. Try to be more considerate of the needs of those around you. You don’t have to martyr yourself for other people, but when you ask someone how they are and they respond that they aren’t doing so great. Listen to them intently and do your best to empathize with them. Don’t brush off their feelings and tell them that it will be okay. Make sure they feel seen and heard by you so they know you feel for them and want them to feel better.

Take Time To Just Be

Femininity is the energy of being not doing so make sure you have time in your day to clear your thoughts, relax, take care of yourself, and basically do nothing. Whether that’s through meditation, stretching reading a book, or taking a warm bath. Do something that makes you forget about your worries and makes you feel present and safe.

Practice Gentleness and Compassion

Whether you’re dealing with others or with yourself, approaching difficult, frustrating situations with gentleness and compassion can help diffuse tension and anxiety. This will help you feel safer. When something irritating happens, slow down and try not to explode into frustration and anger. Take a deep breath and understand that although the situation is frustrating and painful, exploding is only going to make it worse. Focus on what you can control about the situation, not what you can’t. If you can’t control anything else, you can control your feelings and actions.

Avoid Toxic People

Cut toxic people out of your life that are making you feel unloved and unsafe. Femininity flourishes in safe environments where it is safe to be open, soft, vulnerable, and gentle. If there is anyone in your life who makes you feel emotionally or physically unsafe you’re going to get used to having your masculine shield up constantly. This is going to compromise your feminine essence and make you less happy. There is nothing wrong with operating in your masculine energy as a woman from time to time. Nothing would get done without it. However, it’s not healthy when you have the masculine shield up so often that it diminishes your ability to be feminine.

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Tips To Living A More Feminine Life

Everyone has dimensions. You are allowed to show up as your authentic self with whatever added flavors that make you who you are. If you are naturally more assertive, that’s okay. You can be in tune with both your femininity and masculinity without compromising your feminine essence.

By following these simple tips, you can become more self-aware and learn to embrace your feminine essence. To keep your feminine journey going, sign up for our newsletter to stay up-to-date on the latest in feminine energy, self-care, and creating a life you love.

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